You can’t throw out something that you don’t hold in your hand, can you?
Moreover, you cannot release something when you don’t hold the entirety of it in your hands. You can’t release the whole bird from the cage if you are only looking at a single feather.
You equally can’t let go of any obstacle in your life that is a result of accumulated daily trauma unless you see each element of it in its entirety and understand every way how each element affects another.
You need to approach your healing and transformational work systematically; only then can you “manifest” the desired future and live happily in the present by truly letting go of your past. And letting go often requires a RELEASE.
You Can’t Let Go of What You Don’t Hold
It sounds simple: to release something, you must first hold it (see it, or at least feel it, sense it). This principle seems obvious when applied to physical objects, but it becomes surprisingly overlooked when dealing with something non-tangible that prevents us from attaining our desired outcomes, especially if it’s a result of past emotional pain.
You Cannot Release What You Don’t Hold Entirely
Now, take that a step further. Even when you recognize an issue—say, a specific fear or regret—how can you release it if you don’t hold the entirety of it? If you’re only holding a piece of your anxiety or a fragment of your self-doubt, you’re not really letting go of anything. You’re merely discarding a splinter while the root remains embedded. This is precisely why surface-level solutions rarely lead to sustainable change. Partial awareness leads to partial liberation.
How can you let go of pain you haven’t fully understood? How can you release trauma when you’ve only touched a fraction of it? How can you free yourself from the weight of accumulated stress while ignoring its intricate origins and intertwined patterns?
In rare cases, spontaneous instances of letting go without comprehension happen, but we can’t apply our will to it. If we are to make any efforts to activate the healing of our mind and body, we must apply a process, and this process must work. And unless it’s systematic, it just won’t. It can patch some of your “symptoms,” expressions in your behavior, but left in a room alone without distractions for a day, you will see how the thoughts and feelings remind you that the pain is still there.
Imagine Trying to Release a Bird from Its Cage While Only Holding a Single Feather
It might feel like you’re granting freedom, but the bird itself remains trapped—still burdened, still confined. This metaphor perfectly encapsulates how most people approach their struggles. They seize on a single aspect, such as one traumatic memory or one toxic belief, and assume that letting go of that piece means they’ve been liberated from the entire burden. The illusion of progress masks the deeper reality: most of the cage remains intact, still holding the bird hostage.
“Why Am I “Not There” Yet?
Yes, you are not there, not here, you are still solving the past, whether you are aware of it or not. You pick partners to avenge the past hurts, you try to build your multi-million dollar empires as a vengeance device. (Not that there’s anything wrong with building an exciting business, as an entrepreneur myself and a consultant for business owners, I am all for it…) The question is, what is your real motivation— inspiration and desire for service, or an attempt to prove someone that you are worthy).
So, what is needed is a deep systematic approach to any transformation, to catalyze any change.
This Is Where Traditional Transformational or Therapeutic Methods Fall Short
They often target singular symptoms without recognizing how these symptoms form a part of a greater, interdependent system. To truly release accumulated trauma, you must hold the complete map of influences in your mind. See how each fear affects another, how sadness and anger intermingle, how regret and ambition coexist, etc. (We work with dozens of various influences and in the MMB model, we call them Mesa Anchors).
Only then can you genuinely dismantle the whole wall that separates you from the amazing life you deserve. We demolish it by patiently dismantling it brick by brick on all levels— cognitive, emotional, bioenergetic, behavioral, quantum, etc.
Healing the Body: Fixing One Toe Might Not Fix Your Kidney
Imagine a person with chronic pain in their toe. Medical intervention might focus entirely on that one location, but if the pain is part of a greater postural imbalance or a long history of injury compensation, treating the toe alone does nothing. You can’t heal the body by addressing just a single symptom. It requires understanding the whole system—how foot pain could relate to knee strain, hip alignment, or even spinal posture.
This fragmented approach to healing extends beyond the body. Whether it’s your mental health, relationships, or professional aspirations, you cannot make substantial changes by focusing solely on isolated fragments. The whole must be addressed as a comprehensive system.
Manifestation: Desire and Its Paradox
Now consider the popular concept of manifestation. We’re told that desire, coupled with positive thinking and visualization, “manifest” our dreams. Yet, the very act of desiring inherently signals a state of lack—a declaration that something crucial is missing from your life. This cognitive dissonance inherently works against the intended outcome. Moreover, the desire itself is rarely examined in its full complexity. It’s like wanting financial abundance while subconsciously holding onto deep-seated fears of responsibility or rejection that wealth might bring.
To manifest effectively, it’s not enough to blindly repeat affirmations or cultivate positivity by reframing our beliefs (yet not fully believing in reframes, and not truly “feeling it”). It’s about systematically dismantling the maze of resistance, lack, and desire itself. We must hold that whole bird, not just a single feather of aspiration, to set it free.
The Necessity of a Systematic Approach
So, I hope by now you agree, systematic transformation is not about addressing one belief, one habit, or one fear at a time. It’s about understanding the interconnected dynamics that sustain your current state. You cannot release the past while holding onto fragments. You cannot achieve peace when only negotiating with a few sources of turmoil.
True freedom and power come from grasping the entire network of interrelations and influences and releasing the past and the identity it created, in its entirety.
That’s Where the MetaMind Bend (MMB) Model Offers What Many Other Approaches Have Not
As they tinker with individual beliefs or single-point issues, MetaMind Bend (MMB) Model is rooted in systems theory, drawing from insights in non-linear dynamics and quantum psychology, but it remains grounded in practical application, specifically designed for entrepreneurs and leaders who seek to live a life of purpose.
Why the MMB Model Is the Only Comprehensive Solution
Unlike practices that address one or a few aspects of a problem, MMB’s systematic approach provides a full-spectrum recalibration. It doesn’t just reduce stress, reframe nagging thoughts and beliefs, or instill fleeting positivity.
Instead, the MetaMind Bend Model addresses the foundational architecture of your mental and emotional state. It exposes how one limiting belief subtly reinforces another, how a buried emotion subtly sabotages your intentions.
This model is a departure from fragmented thinking. It’s not about holding a single insight and mistaking it for our path to freedom. It’s about holding the entirety of our internal landscape, seeing how everything that constitutes your identity, not only on the level of our psychology and physiology but also on a quantum level, is intricately intertwined. Only then can you dismantle what needs to be dismantled and consciously create what we truly aspire to.
MMB represents the paradigm shift that modern transformational work needs. It’s not a collection of techniques. It’s a complete system that respects the complexity of human experience within the quantum matrix and offers a thorough and scientifically sound approach to change.
The Critical First Step: MMB Identity Gap Assessment
So, now you understand that trying to solve a complex puzzle without first seeing the entire picture is not a great idea if you actually want to solve it. You might manage to fit a few pieces together, but without a clear vision of the whole, your efforts are likely to be scattered and frustrating. The MMB Identity Gap Assessment functions much like that complete picture, giving you the essential overview you need to approach transformation systematically and intelligently.
Why Do We Start With MMB Identity Gap Assessment?
The MMB Identity Gap Assessment is the foundational step in our onboarding process because it addresses one critical discovery I made over the last two decades of facilitating inner work for people: most people don’t actually know what’s holding them back. They think they do—pointing to surface issues like procrastination, low motivation, or strained relationships—but these are often just symptoms of deeper identity conflicts.
Without clearly understanding the entire landscape of your identity and how its elements are misaligned or conflicting, any effort to change is fundamentally limited. Only when we understand all you Mesa Anchors can map them and use our Deconstruct – Release – Diffuse processes to liberate you from your chains.
What Makes This Assessment Necessary and Actionable?
You can go and order a multitude of assessments that focus on traits or personality types. All I ever got from it is soothing my blindspots.
They might tell you that you’re introverted or a perfectionist, but they rarely dive into how various traits interact and influence each other to create and strengthen patterns that either support or sabotage your journey towards desired outcomes, and ultimately– self-actualization… and self-realization.
For example, according to Myers-Briggs, I am an INTP. So, what? All it does is explain why I often feel like I don’t belong (because my type represents 0.5% of the population on this planet). Ok, but “so what” and “now what”? And really, don’t we all, caged in this human skin, feel like this at a time?
Plus, all these tests are not situational; they are not contextual to a particular dilemma we face at any given time.
The MMB Identity Gap Assessment, on the other hand, maps out interactions—how all your Mesa Anchors – cognitive, emotional, behavioral, physiological, bioenergetic, quantum etc. patterns – intertwine to either propel you beautiful self forward or drag you back.
This approach reveals not just what you believe, but how your beliefs collide or contradict each other and with all other Mesa Anchors, identification of which defines our strategy for your liberation.
For instance, an entrepreneur might consciously value ambition but subconsciously associate success with loneliness due to childhood experiences. Or a person struggling with relationships might consciously seek intimacy while subconsciously holding onto fears of vulnerability, causing repeated conflicts.
That’s all cognitive therapies can tell you.
BUT, none of it is really all of it.
How The MMB Identity Gap Assessment Helps Entrepreneurs
For entrepreneurs, the assessment often uncovers why business growth feels stagnant despite apparent effort and determination, and even seemingly right business strategies and tactics. It highlights conflicting identity elements that create internal resistance to taking bold steps. These conflicts aren’t visible through surface-level analysis, which is why many ambitious humans remain stuck despite their hard work.
And for those whose relationships (business relationships or personal relationships) feel rocky or unfulfilling, the assessment can also be extremely helpful.
The MMB Identity Gap Assessment will illuminate how their desire for connection is at odds with dozens of other influencing factors–some very easily understandable, psychological, while some are more metaphysical, esoteric in nature.
Often, Mesa Anchors—these influencing factors—are so ingrained that they seem like unchangeable aspects of one’s personality and destiny. But in reality, they are remnants of the past and future (Yes, and future! Wait till we dismantle your linear timeline!) experiences that need to be identified and consciously restructured.
Clarity Leads to Precision
Once the identity gaps are clearly identified, you no longer have to rely on vague self-help advice or generic motivational tactics. You gain the precision to address the real “problem”, not just the visible symptoms. This clarity is crucial because it allows for targeted, efficient action rather than wasting time on partial and often irrelevant efforts.
Why This Tool Alone Can Transform Your Perspective
While the MMB Identity Gap Assessment is just the beginning of the MetaMind Bend™ process, it’s transformative in its own right. Even without further intervention, seeing your own identity dynamics laid out with this level of precision often triggers profound shifts in perception. It’s like finally understanding why a puzzle piece never fit before—because you were trying to force it into the wrong context.
This awareness alone creates a sense of liberation and renewed energy because it moves you out of the futile cycle of trying harder without seeing better results. It reframes the problem from “I’m stuck” to “I see why I’m stuck,” and that shift in perspective is the most crucial step toward meaningful, lasting change.
Your Next Step: A Systematic Approach
Once your identity map is clear, you can approach transformation strategically—addressing each inner conflict and hidden pattern as part of a comprehensive system. The MMB Model then guides you through dissolving these contradictory elements and realigning your inner architecture for coherence and forward momentum.
It’s not about motivation or willpower. It’s about having the right map—one that shows you exactly where the gaps are and how to close them. The MMB Identity Gap Assessment is that map, and it’s the most intelligent way to begin your transformational process.
As you order your MMB Identity Gap Assessment, you will also get very valuable BONUSES:
– A 1-on-1 Zoom session with your MMB Catalyst that will help you interpret your assessment results and guide you through the next steps you can take for ultimate self-liberation..
– The MetaMind Bend Model Manual–a revolutionary guide to unlocking your full potential with MMB to break free from limiting anchors and create an extraordinary life and business with new strategies.
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- Step into your limitlessness: It’s a new and highly effective approach to help individuals unlock their full potential.
- Break free from limiting anchors (Mesa Anchors): It aims to help people break free from self-imposed limitations and attitudes that anchor their awareness of reality.
- Create an extraordinary life and business: It provides tools and strategies to create an extraordinary life and business by overcoming internal barriers.
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