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It’s time to discover the perceptual GAP YOU NEED TO BRIDGE TO MANIFEST YOUR BOLDEST DESIRES—and shift from where you are to where you actually want to be.

TRANSFORM BUSINESS, FINANCES RELATIONSHIPS AND HEALTH—start with the MMB Personality Gap Assessment, get a comprehensive report and a limited-time bonus.

Ok, let’s talk about all of it, really.

Are you living a life crafted by your own agency—or merely animating a set of inherited coordinates? When you say “this is who I am,” who calibrated that measurement of the “who”? And if you’re working so hard to become your “best self,” why does it still feel like you’re renovating a house you don’t actually want to live in?

Let’s begin with a premise most people resist, because it threatens the scaffolding they mistake for selfhood: as a human you’re not one coherent thing. You’re a committee of selves, often bickering. And the louder ones—the ones built from early rewards, traumas, social reinforcement, professional identities, parental archetypes and a bunch of things I will leave out to avoid sounding too esoteric—they are rarely the ones capable of manifesting what you claim to desire. You say you want clarity, wealth, intimacy, vitality—but the internal agent making the request isn’t authorized to receive them. Why? Because it’s often a proxy self, animated by a bunch of fears and resistances.

The MMB Identity Gap Assessment was designed to make that incoherence visible.

It’s a psychometric dissection designed to show you how your internal map conflicts with the terrain you’re trying to walk. It reveals the contradictions in your cognitive-emotional matrix, your values misalignments, the energetic incongruities you’ve normalized so fully they feel like “you.”

You’ll receive a full-spectrum diagnostic and meet with a MetaMind Bend Catalyst trained not to affirm you, but to reflect you—as precisely as a high-resolution, unflattering mirror. And that’s the mercy of it. Because once you see what’s been misfiring, you don’t need motivation.

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You need neutralization of what we call in the MMB, Mesa Anchors.

It’s a systematized unmasking, designed for those who’ve outgrown positive affirmations and want to trade dopamine for data. It doesn’t teach you how to think better thoughts—it shows you not only which assumptions your thoughts are orbiting around, but also why those orbits keep collapsing under influence of other 30 Mesa Anchors of your identity. 

You’re not here to become someone. That’s the lie. You’re here to become no one in particular—so that life can move through you without distortion. Personality, after all, is just the residue of repeated defense. The Assessment doesn’t help you improve it. It helps you interrupt it.

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Instantly get everything you want by discovering your true identity.

…because all you’ve ever really wanted is wholeness. Everything else has simply been a means to that end. Earlier in my work as a transformational practitioner, I believed it was love that people were ultimately seeking. But even love is a relative desire, bound to subject-object perception, and therefore cannot be final. Wholeness, by contrast, is prior to wanting. It doesn’t need to be earned—only remembered.

Bridge the gap between what you think you are and what you actually are and by bridging the gap of reality of you, accomplish the most ambitious aspirations and attain what your heart desires, if it’s in your highest good.

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You’re not stuck—you’re misaligned with your highest truth.

Using MetaMind Bend’s proprietary method, the Identity Gap Assessment exposes the real reasons behind your fatigue, confusion, and resistance. Get clarity on your misalignments—and personalized guidance to dissolve them.

Think of it as an MRI for your inner self.

Most personal growth tools just scratch the surface. The MMB Identity Gap Assessment dives into the deep code of your psyche, assessing 30 Mesa Anchors that bind you. The comprehensive report will present to you the full scope of your inner work for discovering your superpowers.  It will break down your profile, decoding unconscious anchors —and cognitive distortions, emotional and energetic dissonance, misalignment of values etc. With your detailed report and 1-on-1 assessment interpretation session, you’ll finally understand what’s really running your life—and how to rewrite it.

Not self-help. Self-reveal.​

This isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about identifying everything that prevents you from being fully you. The MMB Identity Gap Assessment maps the hidden architecture of your inner conflict, and includes a bonus deep-dive session to help you deconstruct it.

You don’t need another personality test—you need a personal truth mirror.​

Using MetaMind Bend’s proprietary method, the Identity Gap Assessment exposes the real reasons behind your fatigue, confusion, and resistance. Get clarity on your misalignments—and personalized guidance to dissolve them.

When willpower fails, hidden anchors are at play.​

If you’ve tried everything but still feel stuck, the Identity Gap Assessment will help you see what you don’t see, know about yourself that you don’t know so you can resolve your identity conflicts with ease.

What if the real impediment isn’t a lack of skill—but a flawed internal blueprint?

MMB isn’t therapy. This is a radical decoding of your unconscious identity map. The Identity Gap Assessment reveals the tangled roots of your emotional, mental, and energetic incongruence. Then, together with your MMB Catalyst, you’ll begin to unweave them.

Understand yourself at the level where change actually happens.

Most assessments label you. This one sets you on a path toward liberating you from all labels. Get a high-resolution mirror of your inner fragmentation—your conflicting identities, beliefs, regrets, projections, and inherited scripts. The Identity Gap Assessment traces the fractal patterns of your inner dissonance and teaches you how to begin dismantling them—starting with a personalized debrief session.

This is not just coaching. This is consciousness cartography.

The Identity Gap Assessment uses MetaMind Bend’s advanced mapping system to show you the exact places where your inner self is splintered. With this roadmap and a private session to walk through it, you’ll learn how to start neutralizing what’s been derailing you from your desired outcomes.

Stop fixing symptoms. Identify the architecture of your entrenchment.

The Identity Gap Assessment is your gateway to radical clarity. By decoding unresolved Mesa Anchors, this unique process lets you finally see what you’ve never been able to name—and gives you a chance to finally let go of what needs to be abandoned, and rebuild a new you and a new life.

As human beings,

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Olga Kostrova, the founder of the MetaMind Bend™ Project and the architect of the MetaMind Bend™ Model, is a true catalyst—a force that disrupts stagnation and ignites transformation. Her work is an alchemy of philosophy, psychology, mysticism, and radical self-inquiry, designed for those who seek not just to understand, but to unbecome—to embody the fluidity of existence, unanchored from all illusions… to become unlimited… to become a true Creator.

For all of us living in a chaotic world, where minds are conditioned by endless influences, the journey to true liberation demands more than self-improvement—it requires self-transcendence. The MetaMind Bend™ Model (MMB) is not just a psychological tool; it is an ontological shift that initiates a radical reawakening, a method of dismantling the perceptual architecture that confines consciousness within preordained limits.

SEE WHAT CLIENTS SAY

about working with the creator of the MetaMind Bend™ (MMB) coaching framework

“ As someone who takes a lot of pride in being deeply insightful and highly perceptive, I was very skeptical of Ms. Kostrova’s claims even after I watched her videos and lectures on the subjects of both personal and professional transformations. However, after only a few sessions the whole experience has left me speechless. Leveraging her analytically probing and coaching skills she was able to get to the root of the problem quickly while making me recognize it as well. I truly felt Ms. Kostrova was reading my mind while also making me feel both safe and comforted by her. In a word – magical ”
Bill Baker, Founder & CEO, Celebrity Food Network LLC. LA CA
“ What Olga did for me is beyond coaching. She not only helped me to facilitate a number of multi-million dollar deals giving great advice on how to approach negotiations, but she also helped me get rid of partial body paralysis. It was amazing. In 2 years of regular visits to psychiatrists and counselors didn’t help. For Olga it took only 3 of her unusual PhysioEmoDynamics sessions, and the paralysis was gone. Simply amazing! ”
Tech CEO, Venture Investor, One of major shareholders of an advertising network recently acquired by Google, Mountain View, CA
“ Olga has bravely and brilliantly worked with me to dis-identify with the egoistic thoughts and feelings that ruled my life. She helped me to finally be able to see the insatiable desires, petty dislikes and life-blocking patterns that had been running me since childhood that had been causing suffering for me and those trying to love me. I’m no longer reacting to my ego’s insistent emotional urges to defend, distrust, and deny a sweet loving connection to self and world. I’m convinced she is a realized a being and lives in a state of powerful, angelic love. She ruthlessly trained me into my excellence and helped me to become a better public speaker, more proactive entrepreneur, and fully embody a new career and build a successful practice as an Executive Coach. ”
Jan Hutchins, Executive Coach, former Mayor of Los Gatos, TV news anchor, Public Speaker, Los Gatos, CA
“ Olga is an unbelievable transformational artist. I approached her when I was drowning. 10 years ago I was diagnosed with depression, and in the last decade, my business sank. After a single session with Olga my depression went away. And I mean it was absolutely gone and the feeling of depression wasn’t even accessible to me any longer. I tried out of curiosity to feel sad and I couldn’t. It was the most unusual outcome. During the next 30 days my business grew rapidly. I was opening new accounts and optimizing my business processes under her guidance. To say that I highly recommend her work is an understatement. ”
Dennis, CEO of a Silicon Valley based construction company, San Francisco, CA
“ Olga… What can one say but that she is a required force of nature. If you need a sweet push into the vast change before you, then work with Olga. She is part coach, part business strategist, part trickster, part cheerleader, and all heart. Olga helps you feel the big picture, though the focus on the details to get you there. She is not trying to be your shrink or guru; she is trying to help you to be you. That’s remarkable, and so is she. I recommend her completely. Sarah, thank you very much for such wonderful testimonials of my work. I am blessed by the each opportunity of encountering beautiful souls like you. ”
Sarah E, Kornfeld, Innovation + Growth Strategist, Writer, Cultural Curator, San Francisco, CA
“ Taking Olga Kostrova’s workshop a few weeks ago was a great experience. Her leadership acumen invokes a level of trust and safety that allowed us, the participants, the opportunity to go deeper into our psyche around what was leading us into the inner world. Olga’s techniques, awareness of human interaction and vulnerability in her own transparency allowed us to take a closer look at our motivation and intention with many powerful subjects. It was interesting, engaging, intriguing and alluring, all at the same time. I am looking forward to the advanced classes. ”
Jay Saber, Leader of MKP (ManKind Project), Facilitator of inner work in prisons, Santa Cruz, USA
“ During my very first session, Olga almost immediately identified my core trouble and simply hearing her insight on the subject gave me the tools I needed to work my way through and out the other side. Some people have a gift for this kind of work and in my experience; I found one of those people in her. Last year I hit a serious personal stumbling block that was holding me back from my true potential. In less than one hour Olga had completely nailed my restrictions and put it very clearly so I could see exactly what I needed to strengthen to achieve my goals. It was stunning and remarkably clear, definitely not something I could have achieved so easily without her help. I am now in a much better place, and my startup is becoming a reality. I’d recommend her to anyone who wants to explore what they need to overcome to take their next steps. ”
Pras Anand, Digital Engineer, London, UK
“ Olga is a great coach to work with – she takes the time to establish great rapport, and she has amazing techniques and insight. She is also no-nonsense in the way she objectively deals with issues, while at the same time, offering a compassionate and feeling heart. I have managed to work through some very difficult issues after a bad breakup involving betrayal which left me angry, broken-hearted, mistrustful, and somehow dislocated from my own spirit. While working with Olga, I have moved past many of the destructive emotions which have taken up a lot of my time, energy, and focus, and regained a feeling of safety, health, and hope. Now I’m able to refocus on my business once again, and get back on with life as it was meant to be! ”
Anna Weltman, Sport & Performance Consultant, Ottawa, Canada
“ I wrote to Olga a few months back asking if she could help me heal from an emotional family wound. She assured me that I didn’t have to suffer as I did anymore. I was a little skeptical and waited another 6 weeks until I contacted her again to sign up for her services. The traditional therapy sessions didn’t heal the emotional baggage which I carried around these last two and a half years. I came in with an open mind and envisioned myself on the road to fully healing and happy again. And that’s exactly what happened. The memories of my past don’t haunt me or tortured me as it did before. I no longer live in the past and enjoy being in the present with my daughters. I cannot begin to thank Olga enough for setting me free. And my business now is doing extremely well. I am so happy! ”
Emmi, Business Coach, San Jose, CA
“ Olga is definitely one of a kind, and that is meant in the most complimentary of ways. A unique blend of intelligence (intellect & emotional), business savvy, heart, intuition, truth, and enlightenment. I highly recommend those that are seeking something more out of their life/careers to have an introductory conversation. I can say with complete confidence that it is you and only you that creates the barriers to whatever it is you wish to attain. Olga has the unique ability to help you identify those barriers and provide the tools to become the best version of yourself (whatever that means for you). I believe Olga brings to the table what many coaches cannot, a unique combination of pure awareness/intuition and amazing business intellect. If you can find someone that can genuinely help you move you out of the way and have a meaningful and intelligent business impact as well, then you found the ultimate support. The hardest part for most coaches being the former. Here’s what I say, have an introductory conversation and I am guessing within the first 10 minutes of the conversation she will see your barriers and offer a plan that will set you free. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. ”
Ken Hunt, Mindful Operations, Data and Finance Executive, Eugene, USA
“ I had been struggling with my career development for a few years when my friend, Jan Hutchins, recommended I contact his wife Olga Kostrova for consulting. The previous year I worked with a career coach and the experience was mediocre, so I was very skeptical about career coaches. While in the process of doing my due diligence on Olga’s services, I found an impressive quote about her, which read that she’s a force of nature’. After working with Olga for several months I believe the quote is an understatement- Olga is nature! Let me explain: No matter what issue, struggle, fear, sense of failure, sense of grandiosity, etc., she has a wonderful way of grounding me by teaching me to ground myself. Through her, I learned to hear my own voice ‘echoing in the hallway’ thus I become my own counsel and redirect myself to my path toward success as I define it. She’s a teacher, leader, friend, muse, challenger, etc. Thus she’s the nature because she grounds me to my core stripping away all the wasted mindshare preventing me from my objectives. That’s just the tip of the iceberg with Olga. However, she’s incredibly astute about business on all levels, plugged into Silicon Valley, worldly and very technically savvy. In conclusion, hire Olga as a coach or consultant for whatever your professional goal is, and you’ll achieve those goals because if you read this you’re ready and Olga will help you down the path. ”
Laurence Verga, Owner, Allstate Insurance Agency, Eugene
“ I firmly believe that we all need coaches at different times in our careers. While I haven’t met Olga in person, she has still proven to be of incredibly high value to me. Her coaching can be very personal and amazingly business oriented. She transcends an understanding of individual issues, as well as organizational and business issues; that amazes me about her capacity. I have worked with a lot of coaches who have helped me individually or to get tremendous growth for my organizations, but she has proven she can do both. It’s amazing how she can coach and work with me via Skype to see and understand how I am reacting to our dialogue and issues and keep us focused and full of high energy. I would also encourage you to chat with her for yourself if you need a coach or others you think who could value from her skills. As I said, her work for me has been invaluable and is the best experience with a coach. I would recommend Olga to our clients as well as others, without hesitation. ”
David Rosen, CEO of TechxFoundry Accelerator, NY
“ Olga is very talented professional with extremely kind and beautiful soul that truly cares. From the very beginning she engages quickly and softly to understand your need that is actually beyond your own self-awareness. She is highly capable in real time to shift and create tailor made coaching that brings you to the core of your true need ,“want” (missing part) and self-discovery. After coaching sessions were over I was able to continue my own journey utilizing the experience and learning I was able to obtain from her. I highly recommend Olga’s coaching in this modern and unpredictable style of leaving where balance and self-knowing is key to have joyful and fulfilled life created by YOU ”
Liljana Dojcinovski, Skilled business strategist, Los Angeles, USA
“ I feel fortunate that I had Olga as my mentor. I love her work, her intuition, especially how she has no hesitation when she “goes for the kill’ to show what I was missing to see. What amazes me most is her instinct about which way to go to find that little something that’s waiting to be changed for the better ”
Nikola Dojcinovski, Data & Predictive Analytics Consultant, Ventura, USA
“ I had the cathartic pleasure of participating in Olga Kostrova’s compelling Shadow Work Theatre Workshop last weekend in La Jolla. Olga is a generous and empathic facilitator with a keen ability to draw authentic expression from all participants. Utilizing theatrical tools in service of psycho-therapeutic exploration and healing in a safe and encouraging field of play, we really got to experience the relief of owning vs suppressing our truth in as full a way as we were authentically feeling it. I felt cleansed and validated by the experience and happily recommend her to anyone seeking to claim and celebrate their own embodiment! ”
Tes Kempner, Actress, Teacher, Facilitator, San Diego, USA
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